I'm scarring them for life. Mommy guilt is a unique animal - and we all suffer from it. Yours truly is still reeling from the great Montessori vs. Public school debate of 2. Plants vs. Zombies on the 6 year old brain. SIGH. So, what's a parent to do? As human beings, our first communications with those around us are all non- verbal. Surely you have never heard a 3 day old baby ask for a nappy change? No, babies communicate largely via body language for the first year. And because it can be confusing (especially when sleep deprived) - babies cry, squirm and fuss trying to get their points across - we often misinterpret what they are trying to say. Getting a firm grasp on what baby is trying to tell you will go a long way to fostering that deep, unabated bond between caregiver and child. For some women, this bond is instant - for others, it takes time, patience and (quite frankly) a little work. By paying attention to baby's body language, you will help facilitate that bond in a much quicker fashion - thereby developing the level of intimacy your baby needs to feel secure, loved and safe. Understanding much of what babies are attempting to communicate rests in the realization that these movements are instinctual - they are the result of eons of evolution. Humans are born with the ability to communicate - but not with the capabilities of spoken language. Language is man- made, a byproduct of the human circumstance, born out of advancement and necessity - not imbedded in our DNA the way non- verbal communication is. For instance, most of us are familiar with the . Most observers will recognize these movements as a result of fear, and adjust their actions accordingly. Certainly, there are times when a dish breaks or a dog barks - and baby will be startled. Not much we can do about that. Yet it does make me worry about children that spend these formative months in chaotic environments - what do their futures hold? What damage is being done in these scant 1. Here are several other key ways in which baby communicates his needs and wants are listed. Some may seem obvious - but remember, babies speak an ancient language - and adults have adapted and rely more heavily on verbal indicators, paying less attention to the non- verbal ways in which we communicate. Turning of the head: Baby turns his head away from an area of boredom, disinterest or overstimulation. When you see this - you'll know its time to switch gears. 4 GESTURES: YOUR BODY SPEAKS Learn to Look for Body Language A mid polite applause, the speaker shuffled toward the platform, his face registering the look of someone being led to the guillotine. Upon arrival, he set Janine Driver is the author of the NY Times Bestseller YOU SAY MORE THAN YOU THINK: A 7 DAY PLAN FOR USING THE NEW BODY LANGUAGE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT, available at Amazon.com and other fine. This is the first book I'd ever read on Body Language, and I found it quite informative and helpful. The illustrations are probably the book's strongest point, making it easier to visualize the particular gestures and positions. Rubbing eyes - Often accompanied by a big yawn (or two), rubbing the eyes indicates fatigue. Studies have shown that the act of rubbing one's eyes has a calming effect on the heart rate, slowing us down literally and figuratively as we prepare for a visit to Sleepytown. Ear Tugs - As in adults, when one part of our body touches another (rubbing chin, twirling hair, tugging on ears) - it is an indicator that the individual needs comforting. In an effort to comfort themselves, whether preparing for sleep or disengaging from a particular situation - babies will rub those ears as a way to calm their emotions. It's easy to recognize these movements and gestures - often more so than interpreting their meaning. Of course, all babies (and people!) are different, so as you and your child get to know one another, you will begin to understand their normal set of behaviors - effectively establishing their baseline. Using the basics of baselining in conjunction with learning to identify and establish specific non- verbal cues in communication will improve your connectivity abilities in life - a precious skill to pass to the next generation. Janine Driver is the author of the NY Times Bestseller YOU SAY MORE THAN YOU THINK: A 7 DAY PLAN FOR USING THE NEW BODY LANGUAGE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT, available at Amazon. Interested in having Janine speak at your next event?
Visit her website, www. Understanding what people. Body language warning Body language is not an exact science. No single body language sign is a reliable. Skip the background theory and history, and go straight to the body language signals and meanings. 4 THE BETTER SPEAKER SERIES 4 USING BODY LANGUAGE USING BODY LANGUAGE Introducing the Presenter TIPS FOR THE PRESENTER: WRITE YOUR INTRODUCTION All prepared speeches in Toastmasters require. Body language and voice inflection; only a small fraction of information is conveyed by the actual words. In electronic communication, all we have are the words as clues to decode information accurately. Whenever wechallenge to.
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